How To Please Your Wife In Bed
Do you feel as though you just aren’t giving your woman what she wants in the bedroom? He must be able to say ‘no’. For most men, the thought of having no control of this is unbearable. For his peace of mind and the long-term happiness of you both, it’s important he feels if he asks you to stop the lifestyle, he can – and you’ll do as he asks (imagine if it was the other way round how you’d feel if he wouldn’t stop sleeping with other women). You could argue with some justification it’s his own fault for starting you off down the hotwiving path, but that’s by-the-by. The fact is, if he’s hurting and you ignore that, your marriage will suffer.
When you take it upon yourself to learn to deep throat, you must be prepared to be persistent. So when you get to the point where his penis hits the beginning of your throat it will be normal to feel a little resistance. In this case, you will need to flatten your tongue to open the back of your throat and create the flat straight line again. A little push from your partner is another deep throat technique that can help, as long as you’re aware it’s coming. You can also try to pull his penis in further using your tongue as a lever, to draw it in then push it back out. With a little persistence you should be able to take his penis in deeper to the point where you can take the entire length of it over your tongue and down in to your deep, deep throat.
Guys, please, treat this act as it was intended – a slow, sensual rollercoaster ride of wonder. Remember that everything down there is quite sensitive, so there’s no need to apply extra pressure unless she asks you to. In fact, she’ll feel pretty much everything – some girls have said that they quite enjoy the subtle touches, such as a partner tracing the alphabet on her clitoris, for example. Ultimately, remember that small actions can create big differences, so be sure to treat the act appropriately.
Find out what she prefers during sexual intercourse. Sometimes women cannot enjoy sex because there are things that are uncomfortable for her. For instance, there are women who do not want to have sex when the light is on. There are sex positions that she is not comfortable with but she is afraid to tell you. Bottom line is find out what makes her comfortable to forget all her inhibitions and just give in to have an intense lovemaking with you. If she is comfortable, you can make your wife enjoy sex with you.
Another way to please your wife in bed and to drive her wild is to perform oral sex on her as foreplay. Giving her cunnilinugs is enough to drive her wild, but to do it as foreplay will be something that will send her over the edge. If you can make her orgasm through cunnilingus and then have sex with her, this will send tingles throughout her entire body. Having an orgasm through clitoral stimulation will make her feel something amazing and then when you enter her for sex, the g-spot will be engorged and aroused, so you will be stimulating that as well. Now, her chances of having another orgasm have significantly doubled and this will set her up for an amazing evening of pure bliss and pleasure with you.
If your wife responds positively to the movie, you can move on to my next tip. Wait until you and your wife engage each other sexually again. Allow your wife to rise to a state of high sexual arousal. What you should then do is confess that you wish to be a feminized cuckold husband. Ask her if she will cuckold and feminize you “for real.” If she needs to know what this means, just explain it to her: You would like her to assume a dominant role in your relationship, to have boyfriends who provide sexual stimulation, and you would like her to feminize you so that she takes away your natural masculinity and makes you act more feminine. If she enjoyed the movie, it is highly possible that she will be very aroused by this idea.
Don’t ever give a woman a reason to say “I will never do that again!” Make sure you taste great. If that means giving up bad habits like smoking, so be it. If great sex is really important to you, you will take steps to ensure you are someone she will love to have sex with, including oral and swallowing. Most women like their guys very clean, so make sure you are clean from head to toe. Even women who say they like sweaty, dirty sex still want you starting out of the gate clean as can be. The sweat she wants to share is the kind you create together, not the kind you come home dirty with.
The first sex tip for men is to make one of her deepest fantasies come true. Even if you don’t think you know what this fantasy is, it is going to be revealed to you right now. Every woman wants to be taken by a man in the bedroom. Every woman wants to feel like she is so desirable that a man cannot help but ravish her. Your woman wants you to show her passion. She wants you to tear her clothes off and to shove her against the wall. She wants you to be a man and to show her what you are made of. This is easily one of the best and sexiest ways to please your woman and to give her what she wants.
You want to cup the breast in your hand as you’re doing this. There is a good chance that by this time, other parts on the breast will be more sensitive, so kissing or licking under the breast or between them should turn her on. Don’t pay attention to only one breast – move between each one and while giving this kind of attention to one, gently rub or lightly pinch the other one – but make sure you have wet it with your tongue first. This can make a difference between an association in her mind with a breast feeder or a lover.
You could say things like, “That feels really good”, or “I love how you suck on my nipples” or “Having you suck my breasts is really turning me on right now”. That’s all there is to it. As you get more comfortable you can start to expand on what to say to him. As your love-making becomes more intense, tell her that you would love to try the swinging lifestyle one day. Describe to her, making it sound as erotic as possible, how you see it happening. Women love to hear a man talk about sexual confessions and use words to turn her on.
Once you have practiced the head tilt, you should now be ready to take him in your mouth. As he enters, a good technique is to flatten the back of your tongue to help the muscles in your throat open. For men, another important point is to give your partner a good time emotionally as well as physically, with your attention fully focused on what you’re doing. Successful sex comes from being fully present with her during the act of lovemaking – being responsive to her movements, words, and feelings. This may take 5 to 30 minutes. But it will be an exciting time. Most women can have a breast orgasm if you do it correctly. Remember, that practice makes perfect.}